Friday, July 25, 2008

Fri, 7.25 - 2 Weeks. Tough Times

Expect a tough 10 - 12 days as Mom continues to battle these infections and some marrow regrows. Ganguly says over 12 years of treating leukemia patient, he's only had one perfect one. So this is not unexpected. That being said, we got the stiff doctor with the high starch shirt to make actual contact with her (mind you it was minimal but that's a lot for 2 weeks)! It's clear to me from watching the staff interact that they value her as a patient, especially her constant 'thank yous' and remembering their names.

- Mental: Tough
- Physical: Tough
- Medical: Tough

Mentally it's tough for her as her brain's a bit scrambled. It's become a matter of carrying her and keeping her strong. She often drifts into different stories and has trouble connecting the exact dates of when things happened since arriving. Or she talks and chuckles in her sleep. We did update her wall calendar and began adding some different milestones on there to help remember.

Her sense of humor's still there though. When the respiratory therapist came in this afternoon and said she looked better than lunch time, Mom responded (an ESPN highlight of a Chiefs / Bengals game was on the TV) that 'yes she did. But that's about like the two jerseys on television being two different shades of orange.' Always keeping us laughing. Then she drifts off to sleep. I have no doubt when she's back on her toes we'll get a good laugh on these stories. She also said the Packers are stuck between a rock and Brett Favre's ego shortly after asking if the Favre situation would impact Green Bay's salary cap. It's moments like those that remind you how diverse her interests are!

Physically she's a trooper. She needs assistance going to the bathroom and it takes a lot out of her. Yet she really powers through it. There haven't been bike updates yet although we're hoping soon. I am planning to get her a t-shirt regarding Olympic swimming as well. There are mutliple iterations on the lung issues remaining. Which leads me to Medical.

Medically they're still dealing with rising and falling fevers and lung issues. They were able to rule out 2 big lung infections, which is good. But they're still looking at them to confirm what they are. There's a chance it's blood in there. You can't determine that without another bronchoscopy though, and there are no plans to do one immediately.

One of the nausea drugs they were giving her was dangerous for the kidneys so they changed it up. And the kidneys responded positively.

I do have another set of blood counts to help understand additional progression:

- WBC: 0.2
- Hemoglobin: 7.6

We're bringing up clippers tomorrow to buzz her hair per her request. She's pretty sure the hair's about to fall out anyway so this will make it more manageable. Then again last Sunday she thought it would be gone by Tuesday. I go back to the original post though, and we're actually right on target with the 3rd week...one of the few predictable occurances so far.

Last but not least I wanted to update on last night's 'panic attack'. Mom did not have a panic attack. She was just alarmed by the 'men in white coats.' The comment she made to me was she thinks there's a minimum height requirement of 6'4" to work here (sounds more like a basketball team)! I can assure everyone that's not the case as Ganguly definitely is not pushing 6'4". He may be even shorter than me. Anyway it was just overwhelming to have them all in here when she was dead asleep. There will be someone staying with her every night until they're more comfortable with what's in there though. We didn't have someone here originally (Mari came up right after that happened) last night, and just like the transportation issues we'll overcome it.

11 comments:

Liz said...
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Liz said...

Tag! First post.
The Ohio contingent is thinking of you -- and that the hair is a minor thing. You already know you look fabulous as a blonde (http://www.kodakgallery.com/ardilafamily/).
That was a great New Year's Eve!
Keep going strong.
Love & hugs,
Liz, Andres, Adam & Nicole

Unknown said...

Hi Cathi
This buzz cut is going to have you looking like Steve. You'll be taking up soccer next :)

Hope you get a better night's rest tonight, and no late night visits from the 'men in white coats'!

love Janet xo

Lisa said...

Connor and Annie-
Just wanted to let you know you and your family are in my prayers. Take care of yourselves so you can take care of your mom through all of this.

Hugs, Smiles and Laughter,
Lisa Ellis

Unknown said...

Hello Cathi
A huge extended family arrived to stay in the hotel last night. All the kids were having a great time in the pool. In for a wedding perhaps?

Anyways, i hope you managed to get some rest. Sending you powerful positive vibes as always.
love Janet xo

Robbie Stanley said...

Hey there Cathi,
Congrats on the successful completion of the last two weeks, especially yesterday. I know you're not up to celebrating right now but I'm keeping track of all the milestones and, believe me, we will have many wonderful celebrations. One for each awful day you got through. And today we're all out here sending strengthening thoughts and lots of love,
Robbie

gail said...

Cathi,

Each day is one more toward getting out of there. Your spirit and determination (not to mention your intelligence) is incredible.

The football story is funny and there will be more. I am so looking forward to hearing more of that wit.

It is not surprising that you have gathered the staff into the fold (so to speak). I would guess that everyone even housekeeping has been charmed by your wonderful smile and warmth.

Keep it up dear!!

We love you.

Gail & Ben

Anonymous said...

Cathi:
I have never blogged before and it has taken me a while to even try to add a message. I send you emails but now am getting an "out of office" response so I will get with the program.
Since we can't come to see you we talk about you often and send good and positive thoughts your way and pray our computers don't crash before you get all better and out of there!
Love, Sally (and Norman)

Mags said...

Hiya-

Hope things have settled down for a bit for ya and you continue to get the care you deserve! You are such a strong woman and full of inspiration! Keep on fighting!

Love-
Mags

Sara Beth said...

Even with a WBC of .2 you are still making jokes. I get out of sorts when my blood sugar drops just a smidge. Your sense of humor is just one of the small things that so many people love about you. That's evident just by reading the posts here. Love to you and all the Snells.

Sara

Rhonda, DJ, Winston and David said...

Dear Cathi, Ditto Robbie. She does seem to have all the right words. You have ticked off 14 days of hard work. Milestones.
We love you and are keeping the prayers every waking minute along with all the sibs.
Love, Rhonda and the boys
(Check your main pad,4102, for mail...we are keeping the funnel full.)